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Noticing Sufficiency

I had a full week that included much client work, phone calling and meetings. I also took a trip to Arkansas for a weekend retreat. As I am sitting on my return flight wondering what to write for this week’s blog I witness a wonderful exchange. Two men in first class give up their seatsRead the Rest…

Why Have Kids?

The current discourse on parenting seems to follow some particular trends including parenting is hard, parents these days overparent (i.e. helicopter parent), and being a bad mom is ok (whatever bad means). Parents from other generations like to criticize those of us doing the raising these days, and we in turn like to criticize howRead the Rest…

Rediscovering Christmas

Would the overdone, overstuffed, consumer crazed Christmas exist without the media fuel? I understand that retailers are trying to sell goods for their businesses to be profitable so although I can’t stand the commercials, I understand why I am subjected to them. I wonder if the commercialism of this holiday actually stems from the mediaRead the Rest…

A Return to Blogging – A completion Story

I just finished the first round of edits of our latest forthcoming publication. It is our next booklet tentatively titled A Journey Continued. It is the compilation of many of our blogs from this year. As I read the manuscript I was surprised by the quantity of all we have written. The blog writings wereRead the Rest…

Gratefuls

Scarcity has dominated my mood. No one is good enough. Things not are said right enough. Expectations are not being met. All I see is what I don’t like, what is not working, what I wish were different. I am hitting the most common, my most utilized weapons of scarcity – resistance, complaining, frustration, whatRead the Rest…

anatomy of a breakdown

I still regret my mistake. I don’t prescribe to “everything happens for a reason.” Though I didn’t accidentally end a life, what I did stinks and was wrong. Sometimes that happens. And, we were able to acknowledge, adapt and learn. These actions are the foundations for coping with uncertainty, for an ever fast changing economic (and political and social and climate) landscape, and for shifting into a new paradigm.

cleaning house: why wait? (part 2)

Why did I wait? I waited out of fear and avoidance, distraction and disillusion. I was scared. I was in scarcity-thinking. These are some of the powerhouse weapons of scarcity I use most. I think now I can claim that when something piles up and hangs around in my space, that it’s an indication I am relating to it in scarcity, not like it’s wrong or bad, but that it might be starting to suck my energy and drain some attention from what I care about.

cleaning house: why wait? (part 1)

My family is preparing to move out of our house and into a new space. This requires, as you are most likely familiar, a sifting through some many number of years of purchases, piles and files, corners and drawers, bins and boxes. It’s an odd exercise, I am finding, but has its satisfying moments. BagsRead the Rest…

Random Acts of Violence

I woke up this morning thinking about suffering. Partly because I am reading This Is Not The Story You Think It Is: A Season of Unlikely Happiness by Laura Munson. She gave up Suffering period, full stop, end of story and partly from following my thoughts. How did you sleep? My husband asks . .Read the Rest…

learning from a louse

I am a louse. Not the Elizabethan insult Shakespeare invented. But the bug. That is what I am thinking as I comb through my daughter’s hair looking for eggs. That’s what I have been thinking about a lot lately. Myself and Maxine and three other families from our school have head lice. I would notRead the Rest…

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